There are time when we know not how to pray. In such times we are reminded of something Paul wrote to the Roman Christians, "Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness; for we do not know how to pray as we ought, but that very Spirit intercedes with sighs too deep for words...the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to the will of God." (Romans 8:26-27). We can also find some encouragement as we remember that Jesus has prayed for us. "I ask not only on behalf of these (the disciples), but also on behalf of those who will believe in me through their word..." (John 17:21).
The praying of Jesus is not just in the past. "Consequently, He (Jesus) is able to save those who approach God through Him, since He always lives to make intercession for them." (Hebrews 7:25). Still another thing to remember is the way the Psalms can guide us in our praying. When we are praying for our nation, we might find ourselves at a loss to know how we should pray. The 85th Psalm offers us several words that provide help. Verse 6 says to the Lord, "Will You not revive us again, so that Your people may rejoice in You?" As we continue in the Psalm we can according to the Scripture pray that "Steadfast love and faithfulness will meet, righteousness and peace will kiss each other, and righteousness will look down from the sky." (Psalm 85:10-11).
One thing which happens as we pray the Scripture is that we find our praying moves into a different realm. We are no longer using the same words. We are no longer praying prayers that reflect what we want, but what God desires to do. Psalm 85 serves us well as it leads us to ask God to forgive our iniquity, (vs. 2) and to a prayer of asking God to bless us with what is good so that our land will yield its increase. (vs. 12). These are the prayers that reflect the heart of God, the will of God, and we can pray such prayers with boldness and confidence.