It takes a life time of living to get where we are. This is true whether we are young or old. It is the many experiences of life that bring us to the place we have arrived. We may have arrived where we are with some bruises and scars and, perhaps, a few blemishes, but from each moment there has been a lesson taught and hopefully learned. Life is never about arriving, but going. It is never about the destination, but the journey.
The Biblical patriarch, Abraham, is really the prototype for the journey God calls us to embrace. The Abraham narrative makes it clear that Abraham was called to a journey with no destination. The question he faced was not about choosing a place God wanted him to go, or a task God wanted him to accomplish, but choosing to go with God into the land of "know not where." This is the context of the original summons on our lives as we choose the way of obedience to the One who brought us into being. When we respond to that call, it might seem to us the way forward is clear and it may be for a time, but never should it surprise us when obedience takes us down a road not seen in the beginning.
Perhaps, it is our moments of faithful going that God gives us experiences that will enable us to move into places, situations, and relationships not seen in the beginning. The experiences which become a part of our journey can be a part of the equipping He does as He readies us for the more that is before us. Whether the road brings us to joy or sorrow, He can as His Word declares use all things to bring about good, or to bring us into the new which He had planned for us from the beginning.